With today being Valentine’s Day, I thought I would share with you some questions that can really deepen your marriage. A successful marriage starts with really knowing each other and connecting on a deep level. Anyone can know your favorite music, your favorite movie, what your fears are, your hobbies. But it takes time, effort, trust and vulnerability to have a deep marriage. It’s not something that can be accomplished overnight. Look at your marriage now, and then look back at the start of your marriage or even at the beginning of your relationship. Sure, it may have been a “freer” time because you now have kids which take up a good majority of time, but look at the difference in your marriage. The actual heart of your marriage. Are you stronger than you were then or are you weaker? These questions that you should sit down with your spouse and really talk to them. Communicate with them and strive for a deeper connection.
1. How can I pray for you this week?
2. What brought you joy this week?
3. What is something that you struggled with this week?
4. What specific thing can I do for you this week?
5. What do you think will make our marriage stronger?
1. How are our finances?
2. How is our sex-life?